"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"Buy me something to make me feel special"

jmeredi

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Any of you guys ever had a girl ask you this?



I picked this HB 7.5 up the other night to go to the movies. Before I go her mom tells me not to get serious with her cuz shes high maintenance (wierd thing for her mom to say). Out of the blue she asks me this. Got any good comebacks?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Black_Italian

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Spider hit the nail on the head.

BUT What i do is seduce rich girls so they buy me sh*t instead. But thats a whole other ball game.

Oh and never pay for the movies for a girl on your first date. Never

Ninja Out
 

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eh either dont buy her anything or buy her something "*******y". ie, condoms, midol, muzzles...things like that.
 

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Originally posted by Stud
eh either dont buy her anything or buy her something "*******y". ie, condoms,
:crackup: :crackup: there you go buy her a box of condoms:crackup: :crackup:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DonJuanMonk

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How about a cookbook? Tell her women these days don't impress you cause they can't cook!
 

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Buy her a 12 inch rubber **** and say "Go nuts."

Seriously, I wouldn't buy her **** unless it's her birthday or something.
 

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buy her like a hallmark card that says "You are special!" or something like that


and dont let this girl take advantage of you. her mom warned you
 

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"You wanna feel special? Ride the Short Bus to School"
 

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Originally posted by jmeredi
Any of you guys ever had a girl ask you this?
you have to be kidding, she is actually asking that you buy something :down:

next her now and save yourself grief and cash , her mom has already warned you that she is high maintenance, and it gets worse rather than better

when you do buy something for a girl it is more imortant to buy something that has meaning rather than what it costs

the small things are the ones that count , leaving notes, a card , or remembering something she mentions eg she might love cats so you find this little cat statue/toy that costs like 2 bucks , these are the high brownie point items
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You can only smile at the audacity of this girl. The next time that she tells you something like this, ask her if she still believes in Santa Claus.
 

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This girl has alot of nerve actually. One day in the car she told me she liked me cuz I was a challenge, when she thinks she has me, I pull away. She also says she gets off on guys being intimidated by her and bragged to me one day about some guy that bought her a pair of shades. She seems to have alot of emotional baggage.
 

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Good suggestions guys...but this is a case where you can put that DJing into practise and pull her.

BE A CHALLENGE!

By refusing to get her a "special" gift, either by buying her nothing or a pack of Durex, you are doing exactly that. She'll try as hard as hell to change you.

I'm suprised no-one noticed this.
 

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"You're special because you're with me."

Simple as that... ;)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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