"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"Buy me something to make me feel special"

jmeredi

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Any of you guys ever had a girl ask you this?



I picked this HB 7.5 up the other night to go to the movies. Before I go her mom tells me not to get serious with her cuz shes high maintenance (wierd thing for her mom to say). Out of the blue she asks me this. Got any good comebacks?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Black_Italian

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Spider hit the nail on the head.

BUT What i do is seduce rich girls so they buy me sh*t instead. But thats a whole other ball game.

Oh and never pay for the movies for a girl on your first date. Never

Ninja Out
 

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eh either dont buy her anything or buy her something "*******y". ie, condoms, midol, muzzles...things like that.
 

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Originally posted by Stud
eh either dont buy her anything or buy her something "*******y". ie, condoms,
:crackup: :crackup: there you go buy her a box of condoms:crackup: :crackup:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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How about a cookbook? Tell her women these days don't impress you cause they can't cook!
 

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Buy her a 12 inch rubber **** and say "Go nuts."

Seriously, I wouldn't buy her **** unless it's her birthday or something.
 

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buy her like a hallmark card that says "You are special!" or something like that


and dont let this girl take advantage of you. her mom warned you
 

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"You wanna feel special? Ride the Short Bus to School"
 

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Originally posted by jmeredi
Any of you guys ever had a girl ask you this?
you have to be kidding, she is actually asking that you buy something :down:

next her now and save yourself grief and cash , her mom has already warned you that she is high maintenance, and it gets worse rather than better

when you do buy something for a girl it is more imortant to buy something that has meaning rather than what it costs

the small things are the ones that count , leaving notes, a card , or remembering something she mentions eg she might love cats so you find this little cat statue/toy that costs like 2 bucks , these are the high brownie point items
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You can only smile at the audacity of this girl. The next time that she tells you something like this, ask her if she still believes in Santa Claus.
 

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This girl has alot of nerve actually. One day in the car she told me she liked me cuz I was a challenge, when she thinks she has me, I pull away. She also says she gets off on guys being intimidated by her and bragged to me one day about some guy that bought her a pair of shades. She seems to have alot of emotional baggage.
 

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Good suggestions guys...but this is a case where you can put that DJing into practise and pull her.

BE A CHALLENGE!

By refusing to get her a "special" gift, either by buying her nothing or a pack of Durex, you are doing exactly that. She'll try as hard as hell to change you.

I'm suprised no-one noticed this.
 

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"You're special because you're with me."

Simple as that... ;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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