"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"Buy me a drink"

Gonzalo

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Not rude (as to not screw future chances), kinda funny reply...

Her: Buy me a drink...
You: And what am "I" getting? -with smirk-
Her: (whatever)
You: Hmm... not good enough. Buy ME a drink.

credit David DeAngelo
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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That last one was more along my idea of a good response....

It seems some of you guys prefer the all out ego assault. Does that *really* make a girl more interested, or are you just trying to be a total d*ck?

Get the f*ck outta here!
Paint my house, b*tch!
Suck my c*ck!

etc, etc.

I have a hard time seeing the women laughing these insults off. More likely they would tell their friends what in incredible a$$hole I am, or call over the bouncers.

Of course, maybe if their friends think I am an incredible a$$hole....
 

So pimp its scary

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Oh, ya the other one that I use quite often is that I tell women that ask me for a drink that I don't buy girls drinks unless I've already seen them naked.

(I don't use that excuse for strippers tho)
 
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Only hors ask guys to buy them drinks because they think men are chumps and easily manipulted!

Tell her you'll buy her drinks on your second date together!
 
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