"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Buy her Xmas present?

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ok, I know that when you've just met someone it's not advisable to buy flowers, gifts etc... Well, I've been seeing this girl for a month now, intimately for couple of weeks. I haven't got her anything yet, it's been quite even, I've paid for couple dates, she's paid for a couple. I fixed her light switch she cooked for me twice

Xmas is coming up and she's telling me she has something for me tonight as she's treating me sushi, she said it's a xmas present. I feel like I getting something for her in return.

I know I shouldn't ask too much questions and just go with it but what do you guys think?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It would be weird not to get her something. She sounds like a nice girl. I would go with something small and cuetsy that shows more creativity than dollar value.

Stay away from anything expensive. I say under $50, ideally around $30-40.

Sushi ain't cheap.
 
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Alle_Gory said:
It would be weird not to get her something. She sounds like a nice girl. I would go with something small and cuetsy that shows more creativity than dollar value.

Stay away from anything expensive. I say under $50, ideally around $30-40.

Sushi ain't cheap.
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You're right about 1 thing, it wasn't cheap. Cost £95 for the meal for two, that's about $150. I want to get her something, this is what I am quite bad at. Getting presents with thoughts and creativity.
 
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You really have to use discression when getting new women a gift. Last year, I was with a woman whom I was seeing for two weeks. I got her a $10 gift. This year I'm with someone I've been seeing for three months. I'm spending no more than $40-$50 on her.

One month isn't very long. I'd put a gift range somewhere between $20-$30 on her. Your gift isn't meant to impress, it's meant to show you're thinking of her this holiday season.
 
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You're right about 1 thing, it wasn't cheap. Cost £95 for the meal for two, that's about $150. I want to get her something, this is what I am quite bad at. Getting presents with thoughts and creativity.
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No, that's $150/2 = $75.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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