"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"Buy"-Friends.

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In this day and age of "independent" American women don't ever let them make you their "Buy-friend".

There's nothing wrong with treating a woman once in a while but as soon as you become their provider and the relationship ever ends you will become extremely bitter towards women in general due to your own fault.

Don't invest more in them then they would in you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Naughty Ninja said:
In this day and age of "independent" American women don't ever let them make you their "Buy-friend".

There's nothing wrong with treating a woman once in a while but as soon as you become their provider and the relationship ever ends you will become extremely bitter towards women in general due to your own fault.

Don't invest more in them then they would in you.
Yeah, women need to buy YOU stuff! Yo, playa! You been watching MTV and rap videos. Yeah, how we do. Pimp it. You know how we fly in da 214.
 

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BigJimbo said:
Yeah, women need to buy YOU stuff! Yo, playa! You been watching MTV and rap videos. Yeah, how we do. Pimp it. You know how we fly in da 214.
No one's saying women have to buy "you" stuff BJ. It's a two way street you nimwit.

Please remove the cross dressing she-male BBbardots panties from around your diseased head and open your eyes to read a thread before you hit "reply" like a down's syndrome afflicted chimp. You're dismissed lil man. Good day.
 

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Please remove the cross dressing she-male BBbardots panties from around your diseased head and open your eyes to read a thread before you hit "reply" like a down's syndrome afflicted chimp. You're dismissed lil man. Good day.
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