"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Butterface tells me she's too good looking for me
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Poonani Maker
Master Don Juan
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Amazing, I know. I believe it's they think that they have ALL the time in the world. They they will be young forever. They NEVER wake up, and thus their lives are forever wasted, and they, they don't Care!
Wal-mart society produces Mass Wal-mart thinking people. A woman doesn't have to DO Sh!t. She ambles on, day-by-day, and doesn't have to lift a finger, cause there are plenty of dudes willing to take up her slack. Our fake economy allows this to happen, so TIME doesn't matter. Time = Money to me and you, but to her, she doesn't have to work, so time doesn't not equal money to her/most American women. Nothing is Necessary. Everything is WANT. They are protected/coddled more than ever, yes, even the fat ugly ones, because of the womb between their legs.
Wal-mart society produces Mass Wal-mart thinking people. A woman doesn't have to DO Sh!t. She ambles on, day-by-day, and doesn't have to lift a finger, cause there are plenty of dudes willing to take up her slack. Our fake economy allows this to happen, so TIME doesn't matter. Time = Money to me and you, but to her, she doesn't have to work, so time doesn't not equal money to her/most American women. Nothing is Necessary. Everything is WANT. They are protected/coddled more than ever, yes, even the fat ugly ones, because of the womb between their legs.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
The main reason these people continue to do this is because they are still given value by people looking for easy pickings. In the end, the person assigning them value just lowers their own value.Poonani Maker said: