"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"Butter face" woman keeps pursuing

SeeThruIt

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So if anyone has read my other recent posts, I was recently dumped.

Been trying to spin plates but I'm not in the mood to be honest. Still confused about the ex situation but I'm pushing through it.

Anyway this one girl keeps pushing to hang out and texts often (which I have to say is helping my ego) thing is, I'm not attracted to her face (I'm a jerk I know lol) I feel if I hang out it'll make me miss my ex since to me she was far more attractive.

Should I just do it anyway?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Desdinova

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I kicked my last GF to the curb a month ago, and I'm still not having much going on in my life right now with regards to women. I just feel like I need a break. The last two GFs I've had were a bit stressful to deal with, so I'm enjoying a somewhat lower stress level while I clean up some of the 5hit in my life.

Even though I'm enjoy it, droughts kinda suck. You've got no really decent options and are a bit tempted to bang the low quality crap that's hanging around. The problem is that low quality crap will likely end up being CLINGY low quality crap.
 

Starwolf

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What about focusing on your own stuff?

Business, Hit the Gym, or Master one of your Talents.

Keep the butter face for an occasional f*ck.. to avoid getting needy when you do meet a HB
 

Scaramouche

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Dear Seethruit,
Yeah give her a trot,it is very easy to lose social skills,just as easy as losing muscle,interestingly they both show marked declines after six weeks...If you fall off the Trapeze you must get back up as soon as possible!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Kailex

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Set some massive boundaries, and go for it. She needs to know though that you aren't serious about her, whether you say it verbally or through actions. The downfall of this is that she might be even more drawn to you.

Is her face THAT bad though?

If it's not, then just shut the lights off when you bang her and make sure everytime you two go out, alcohol is involved.
 

SeeThruIt

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Her face has masculine attributes and noticeable acne scars. I'm sure she's attractive to other guys I'm just not feeling it.

Of course though she seems to have a good personality.
 

RangerMIke

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I would never go after a woman I'm not attracted too. If you need a woman to help you forget your ex then go after women that you want. It's not that hard, just start collecting numbers and date.

Hooking up with a woman you are not attracted to will just make you think your life sucks even more.

Always go for what you want NEVER settle, THAT will make you feel better.
 

VladPatton

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Tell Butters you're busy, you have videotapes to return.
 

Kailex

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VladPatton said:
Tell Butters you're busy, you have videotapes to return.
This will never get old to me.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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rastapasta

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Pretty much going through the same thing right now, although no one is technically pursuing me. I will say this though, after I broke up with my HB7.5, which I am kind of still struggling with, I had the opportunity to bang an HB1-2.

I thought that was going to be OK but it wasn't. I couldn't even get hard and ended up just leaving. The next morning I woke up feeling like crap and worthless, major self esteem blow. Not ever doing that again. At least shoot for the same level or higher if you can't direct your energies more towards self improvement

RP
 
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