"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"Butter face" woman keeps pursuing

SeeThruIt

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So if anyone has read my other recent posts, I was recently dumped.

Been trying to spin plates but I'm not in the mood to be honest. Still confused about the ex situation but I'm pushing through it.

Anyway this one girl keeps pushing to hang out and texts often (which I have to say is helping my ego) thing is, I'm not attracted to her face (I'm a jerk I know lol) I feel if I hang out it'll make me miss my ex since to me she was far more attractive.

Should I just do it anyway?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Desdinova

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I kicked my last GF to the curb a month ago, and I'm still not having much going on in my life right now with regards to women. I just feel like I need a break. The last two GFs I've had were a bit stressful to deal with, so I'm enjoying a somewhat lower stress level while I clean up some of the 5hit in my life.

Even though I'm enjoy it, droughts kinda suck. You've got no really decent options and are a bit tempted to bang the low quality crap that's hanging around. The problem is that low quality crap will likely end up being CLINGY low quality crap.
 

Starwolf

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What about focusing on your own stuff?

Business, Hit the Gym, or Master one of your Talents.

Keep the butter face for an occasional f*ck.. to avoid getting needy when you do meet a HB
 

Scaramouche

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Dear Seethruit,
Yeah give her a trot,it is very easy to lose social skills,just as easy as losing muscle,interestingly they both show marked declines after six weeks...If you fall off the Trapeze you must get back up as soon as possible!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Kailex

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Set some massive boundaries, and go for it. She needs to know though that you aren't serious about her, whether you say it verbally or through actions. The downfall of this is that she might be even more drawn to you.

Is her face THAT bad though?

If it's not, then just shut the lights off when you bang her and make sure everytime you two go out, alcohol is involved.
 

SeeThruIt

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Her face has masculine attributes and noticeable acne scars. I'm sure she's attractive to other guys I'm just not feeling it.

Of course though she seems to have a good personality.
 

RangerMIke

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I would never go after a woman I'm not attracted too. If you need a woman to help you forget your ex then go after women that you want. It's not that hard, just start collecting numbers and date.

Hooking up with a woman you are not attracted to will just make you think your life sucks even more.

Always go for what you want NEVER settle, THAT will make you feel better.
 

VladPatton

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Tell Butters you're busy, you have videotapes to return.
 

Kailex

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VladPatton said:
Tell Butters you're busy, you have videotapes to return.
This will never get old to me.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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rastapasta

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Pretty much going through the same thing right now, although no one is technically pursuing me. I will say this though, after I broke up with my HB7.5, which I am kind of still struggling with, I had the opportunity to bang an HB1-2.

I thought that was going to be OK but it wasn't. I couldn't even get hard and ended up just leaving. The next morning I woke up feeling like crap and worthless, major self esteem blow. Not ever doing that again. At least shoot for the same level or higher if you can't direct your energies more towards self improvement

RP
 
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