"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Butt hurt men upset a fat woman rejected them

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Though the headline is brief, I saw this woman's profile that had an added update to it. She said something like if "I reject you and then turn around and tell me I'm fat, then why is it you emailed me in the first place?"

She does have a point, but they also have a point saying that she really cannot afford to be picky if she's a big girl, right? Of course, if a man is horny enough, he'll do anything? I recall one woman on OK cupid that threw up a "I'm tired of online dating, because it sucks".

She was a bit chubby, and in her profile she prefers athletic, tall, dark and handsome men, when she herself looks like she hasn't seen a pair of weights in years. She said she still does pull in those kind of guys, but chances are they are just using her for sex until that gym bunny steals him away, right?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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btownbuck2012

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Because fat women shouldn't be rejecting men. Period.
 

ThisNThat

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Because fat women shouldn't be rejecting men. Period.
Yeah..I meant to add, that the first one I mentioned said that in her last relationship she got "comfortable' and put on some weight and is "working on getting back to the gym"

GETTING BACK...to the gym...lol. You have feet hon, USE them.

was looking for someone to support her and motivate in her weight loss. Pathetic, looking for someone to hold her hand in this? I've noticed that some women are expecting men to pick up THEIR slack and USE it as a dating standard of what they're looking for.

So she's looking for some hunky "personal trainer" as her new boyfriend? lol
 

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Yeah..I meant to add, that the first one I mentioned said that in her last relationship she got "comfortable' and put on some weight and is "working on getting back to the gym"

GETTING BACK...to the gym...lol. You have feet hon, USE them.

was looking for someone to support her and motivate in her weight loss. Pathetic, looking for someone to hold her hand in this? I've noticed that some women are expecting men to pick up THEIR slack and USE it as a dating standard of what they're looking for.

So she's looking for some hunky "personal trainer" as her new boyfriend? lol
I'm amazed at the different realities men and women live in.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Its funny how the market works: Fuking a fat woman is a mans mistake, fuking a handsome man is a fat womans mistake
 

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Its funny how the market works: Fuking a fat woman is a mans mistake, fuking a handsome man is a fat womans mistake
Yeah, because the latter man will dump that fat lady in a heartbeat as soon as that hottie at the nightclub starts giving him the eyes.
 

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Men upset a fat woman rejected them = desperate, needy, selfrespectless, optionless men.
 

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Though the headline is brief, I saw this woman's profile that had an added update to it. She said something like if "I reject you and then turn around and tell me I'm fat, then why is it you emailed me in the first place?"

She does have a point, but they also have a point saying that she really cannot afford to be picky if she's a big girl, right? Of course, if a man is horny enough, he'll do anything? I recall one woman on OK cupid that threw up a "I'm tired of online dating, because it sucks".

She was a bit chubby, and in her profile she prefers athletic, tall, dark and handsome men, when she herself looks like she hasn't seen a pair of weights in years. She said she still does pull in those kind of guys, but chances are they are just using her for sex until that gym bunny steals him away, right?
I wouldn't fu ck a fat woman if I was really horny. I dated one recently and got really grossed out by her. I'd rather fu ck my right hand.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Fat bytches need love too lol.

But yeah, in this age of online dating and social media, where THIRSTY dudes will like anything with titties and a vagina......OF COURSE fat whales will have an "attitude" on par with an HB7, because she is getting about the same amount of attention (online) as the HB7.
 

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Men upset a fat woman rejected them = desperate, needy, selfrespectless, optionless men.
Yes, the rejection triggered his underlying trauma.

He knows he is degenerating himself but it is all hush hush in secret and the fat bytch is supposed to go along with it. The
rejection wakes him up and exposes his self degeneration.
 
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