"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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schttrj

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one girl seems to be extremely busy most of the time but when she replies back, she is very polite and even flirts at times....

another girl who showed much interest previously but suddenly became busy and stopped showing interest, while all the time i was the same....

it is so confusing!

what do you do in this situation and how do you lead them instead of following them?

*both of them are beautiful and knows they have guys waiting for them...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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maybe they are actually busy... you should become busy yourself... and it wont matter so much
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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That's the profile of almost any attractive woman out there, they will have countless men flocking towards them.

"There is an infinite pool of horny men and a limited amount of attractive women"

Not to say throw in the towel or anything, but the supply and demand is skewed and when it comes to the micro level, if you never approach her, you'll never find out.

Here's the silver lining though, when you do come across a super hot girl, you'll find that she'll get approached less than say a 9 or a high 8 because she's intimidatingly pretty.

Anyway, long story short, approach her and approach her strong

http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2006/10/sexual-identity-less-talk-more-sex.html

-Kevin
 
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