"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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schttrj

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one girl seems to be extremely busy most of the time but when she replies back, she is very polite and even flirts at times....

another girl who showed much interest previously but suddenly became busy and stopped showing interest, while all the time i was the same....

it is so confusing!

what do you do in this situation and how do you lead them instead of following them?

*both of them are beautiful and knows they have guys waiting for them...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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FunnyMan

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maybe they are actually busy... you should become busy yourself... and it wont matter so much
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Kevin Feng

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That's the profile of almost any attractive woman out there, they will have countless men flocking towards them.

"There is an infinite pool of horny men and a limited amount of attractive women"

Not to say throw in the towel or anything, but the supply and demand is skewed and when it comes to the micro level, if you never approach her, you'll never find out.

Here's the silver lining though, when you do come across a super hot girl, you'll find that she'll get approached less than say a 9 or a high 8 because she's intimidatingly pretty.

Anyway, long story short, approach her and approach her strong

http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2006/10/sexual-identity-less-talk-more-sex.html

-Kevin
 
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