"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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schttrj

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one girl seems to be extremely busy most of the time but when she replies back, she is very polite and even flirts at times....

another girl who showed much interest previously but suddenly became busy and stopped showing interest, while all the time i was the same....

it is so confusing!

what do you do in this situation and how do you lead them instead of following them?

*both of them are beautiful and knows they have guys waiting for them...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FunnyMan

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maybe they are actually busy... you should become busy yourself... and it wont matter so much
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Kevin Feng

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That's the profile of almost any attractive woman out there, they will have countless men flocking towards them.

"There is an infinite pool of horny men and a limited amount of attractive women"

Not to say throw in the towel or anything, but the supply and demand is skewed and when it comes to the micro level, if you never approach her, you'll never find out.

Here's the silver lining though, when you do come across a super hot girl, you'll find that she'll get approached less than say a 9 or a high 8 because she's intimidatingly pretty.

Anyway, long story short, approach her and approach her strong

http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2006/10/sexual-identity-less-talk-more-sex.html

-Kevin
 
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