AgonyUncle
Senior Don Juan
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Im keen to see what everyones take on this is.
I have been out with this bird a few times. Not much has ever come of it. See her every now and then, mostly to catch a cup of coffee or grab lunch. Between her schedule and mine, its difficult to make time. I am not seriously involved with anyone else, but I am dating another women at the moment, although we are not exclusive. I do like this woman though, and we share the same circle of friends. She calls me about once a week, sends SMS’s all the time. To me though, its never been anything more then friends. Its friend zone through and through from what I can tell. I do enjoy her company though, and as much as I would like to bang this bird, its not the end of the world if I don’t.
Problem is that she owns a salon, which means she works 7 days a week most weeks. Long hours during the week. She averages between 70-80 hours a week. On top of it, she is a single mother. So free time is generally a problem. I have been getting a lot of mixed signals from her lately though. Constantly suggesting we need to meet up. Phoned me a few weeks back asking why I am so quiet asking if I have finally got someone serious in my life. Phoned another time and asked me if I have been ignoring her.
Out of no where, today she says to me that she does not have time for a boyfriend, but she gets really lonely sometimes. To me, that’s code for **** me please, just don’t expect me to become attached. Or am I reading more then I should into this.
Thoughts?
I have been out with this bird a few times. Not much has ever come of it. See her every now and then, mostly to catch a cup of coffee or grab lunch. Between her schedule and mine, its difficult to make time. I am not seriously involved with anyone else, but I am dating another women at the moment, although we are not exclusive. I do like this woman though, and we share the same circle of friends. She calls me about once a week, sends SMS’s all the time. To me though, its never been anything more then friends. Its friend zone through and through from what I can tell. I do enjoy her company though, and as much as I would like to bang this bird, its not the end of the world if I don’t.
Problem is that she owns a salon, which means she works 7 days a week most weeks. Long hours during the week. She averages between 70-80 hours a week. On top of it, she is a single mother. So free time is generally a problem. I have been getting a lot of mixed signals from her lately though. Constantly suggesting we need to meet up. Phoned me a few weeks back asking why I am so quiet asking if I have finally got someone serious in my life. Phoned another time and asked me if I have been ignoring her.
Out of no where, today she says to me that she does not have time for a boyfriend, but she gets really lonely sometimes. To me, that’s code for **** me please, just don’t expect me to become attached. Or am I reading more then I should into this.
Thoughts?