"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Busted Game...

trans_am03

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Well a few months back I enlisted in the air force but I wont be leaving til October. For that reason I dont think it'd be a good idea to get into any serious kinda relationship so I dont get attached and all. Well this sucks cuz I dont have any problem getting hb's, I actually have a few lined up right now but I've been kinda down since I know I cant into anything. Damn this sucks. Anyone have a similar situation?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ace of Flames

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Let the good times roll man! Why can't you mess around with all these girls you have lined up without getting involved? Just have some ONS's, or make a few f-buddies.
 

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Well one actually wants to be f-buddies, but Im not really into that, I was hoping for a ltr which I cant have now.
Plus another problem I've been having with girls is I have unusually high standards. I mean they'll be like hb6-8's and I'll just start thinking to myself are they hot enough? If I dont think ones hot enough I dont even bother. I mean I've got enough friends.
 

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SO you want a relationship but are leaving soon... mmm, ok... if you really want one that badly then start one and then have it change to long distance, i'm not sure what else to say, strange thread =/
 

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Randomer said:
SO you want a relationship but are leaving soon... mmm, ok... if you really want one that badly then start one and then have it change to long distance, i'm not sure what else to say, strange thread =/
exactly
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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