KneghtRyder
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whats your opinion on business cards?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
business cards : take them or still ask for a cell?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
This is funny you asked that, because Saturday a girl gave me her business card. And I said something like, "I don't normally call people at their work, what's your cell number?" She gave it to me. I would always get the cell number too.KneghtRyder said:whats your opinion on business cards?
Lord Shinra
Senior Don Juan
Aye. In agreement. I used to get work #s at first, and they staled quickly. Now its either cell or I TTYL.ketostix said:This is funny you asked that, because Saturday a girl gave me her business card. And I said something like, "I don't normally call people at their work, what's your cell number?" She gave it to me. I would always get the cell number too.
business cards sometimes have a cell on them, I think. but yeah, I usually ask specifically for the cell #
In some ways, I guess a non-cell # might be good. Cell phones always have call waiting, and it's usually not a good idea to leave either
1) a voice message or
2) multiple missed calls
on a girl's cell before you've actually gone out with her.
In some ways, I guess a non-cell # might be good. Cell phones always have call waiting, and it's usually not a good idea to leave either
1) a voice message or
2) multiple missed calls
on a girl's cell before you've actually gone out with her.
Lord Shinra
Senior Don Juan
i always hear conflicting answers on that one. Some people say leave the message, some say dont. Is that a judgement call or what?Obsidian said:business cards sometimes have a cell on them, I think. but yeah, I usually ask specifically for the cell #
In some ways, I guess a non-cell # might be good. Cell phones always have call waiting, and it's usually not a good idea to leave either
1) a voice message or
2) multiple missed calls
on a girl's cell before you've actually gone out with her.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Kev07
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Leave the message.
You could say "gimme a call" somewhere if you want, otherwise you can just leave a message saying what's up, shows you have balls and assertiveness.
You could say "gimme a call" somewhere if you want, otherwise you can just leave a message saying what's up, shows you have balls and assertiveness.
well, i haven't really tried it so I don't know from experience, but it seems doubtful that a woman would call you back if you left a message without having gone out with her first
i mean, hell, half the time they don't even call you back if you have gone out with them already
i mean, hell, half the time they don't even call you back if you have gone out with them already