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business cards : take them or still ask for a cell?

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KneghtRyder said:
whats your opinion on business cards?
This is funny you asked that, because Saturday a girl gave me her business card. And I said something like, "I don't normally call people at their work, what's your cell number?" She gave it to me. I would always get the cell number too.
 

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ketostix said:
This is funny you asked that, because Saturday a girl gave me her business card. And I said something like, "I don't normally call people at their work, what's your cell number?" She gave it to me. I would always get the cell number too.
Aye. In agreement. I used to get work #s at first, and they staled quickly. Now its either cell or I TTYL.
 

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business cards sometimes have a cell on them, I think. but yeah, I usually ask specifically for the cell #

In some ways, I guess a non-cell # might be good. Cell phones always have call waiting, and it's usually not a good idea to leave either
1) a voice message or
2) multiple missed calls
on a girl's cell before you've actually gone out with her.
 

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Obsidian said:
business cards sometimes have a cell on them, I think. but yeah, I usually ask specifically for the cell #

In some ways, I guess a non-cell # might be good. Cell phones always have call waiting, and it's usually not a good idea to leave either
1) a voice message
or
2) multiple missed calls
on a girl's cell before you've actually gone out with her.
i always hear conflicting answers on that one. Some people say leave the message, some say dont. Is that a judgement call or what?
 

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well, i haven't really tried it so I don't know from experience, but it seems doubtful that a woman would call you back if you left a message without having gone out with her first

i mean, hell, half the time they don't even call you back if you have gone out with them already
 
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