Hey, has anyone ever tried going out and handing out your business card to like all the hot women you see...real quick like "hey I don't have time to talk now, but I'd like to get to know you, here's my business card." It's probably not real DJ-ish, but if you think about it you could hit up 50+ women in less than 30 minutes at a mall or something. If you have your e-mail and #, I'm sure you'd get some contacts and although it goes against this forum, some women would find it cute and admire that you did that.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Business card approaches
- Thread starter Zero Hero
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
The problem with business cards is that some people don't understand what they're supposed to do with a business card. In my line of work, I've often had people hand my card back to me as though the card were my only one. I don't know how many times I've told people that they can keep the card. Although, this might not be a problem in certain circumstances, and may lead to further conversation.
GHardy
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That doesn't sound too likely to work ... unless maybe you are something really impressive like a foreign diplomat or a neurosurgeon, but even then, it's kind of a weird way to approach people.
First of all, it's a business card so the woman might be confused about whether you are trying to hit on her or sell her something.
Second of all, by just throwing a business card in someone's hand, you're not giving them much reason to go through the effort call you, unless you are super-hot. And if you were, you wouldn't need to do something like that in the first place. In order for a woman to actually pick up the phone and call you, you're going to need to give her some sort of incentive to want to call you. Some sense of a spark or connection. And you have to look like you are willing to put forth at least a little effort.
Plus, think about it ... if you go to the mall and start handing out business cards left and right, the way people walk around and in and out of stores, chances are that some of the women will see you handing out your card to other women and then you look like a giant douche. And if the woman that sees you do this is the one woman that maybe was considering dropping you a line then you've screwed yourself over.
I think giving a business card is great way to give a woman a way to contact you, if you have a decent job, because it lets her see that you are successful and puts some power into her hands to establish contact. But it's better used in a situation where you've been talking to a woman and there seems to be interest and you break out the business card instead of asking for her phone number. Handing them out like that doesn't seem likely to do much for you.
First of all, it's a business card so the woman might be confused about whether you are trying to hit on her or sell her something.
Second of all, by just throwing a business card in someone's hand, you're not giving them much reason to go through the effort call you, unless you are super-hot. And if you were, you wouldn't need to do something like that in the first place. In order for a woman to actually pick up the phone and call you, you're going to need to give her some sort of incentive to want to call you. Some sense of a spark or connection. And you have to look like you are willing to put forth at least a little effort.
Plus, think about it ... if you go to the mall and start handing out business cards left and right, the way people walk around and in and out of stores, chances are that some of the women will see you handing out your card to other women and then you look like a giant douche. And if the woman that sees you do this is the one woman that maybe was considering dropping you a line then you've screwed yourself over.
I think giving a business card is great way to give a woman a way to contact you, if you have a decent job, because it lets her see that you are successful and puts some power into her hands to establish contact. But it's better used in a situation where you've been talking to a woman and there seems to be interest and you break out the business card instead of asking for her phone number. Handing them out like that doesn't seem likely to do much for you.
Ace_McGregor
Don Juan
No, no, no, no, no, no... don't go around handing your business cards out to women. They will never call. Always ask for their number.
I am telling you this through personal experience as well as everything I read.
I am telling you this through personal experience as well as everything I read.
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I used to do this, and think it's an excellent way to break the ice. If they accept your card, then ASK for their name (BTW: What's your name), then take out another card and write their name on the back of your card, show them card, ask them, is this spelled correctly? They say yes, good. Then go NUMBER. Congratulations - contact close. Call her for a date later.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
I wouldn't hand out business cards to women I just met, however I would (and have) handed out social cards.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Is any gaining of rapport involved or are you just walking up to women and giving them hand spam?Zero Hero said:
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
^ isnt that given?
Handing out BC to women without any rapport would be...well... r*tarded.
Handing out BC to women without any rapport would be...well... r*tarded.
Muzzlehatch
Don Juan
Hi there,
This is something I've been wondering about also. Maybe not in the 'shotgun' fashion you're outlining, but maybe just a sort of 'email' card with my name and email on it instead of asking for a phone number? See, the way I figure it a lot of people can't actually remember their own email address, and bear in mind if you get an email address its got to be dead accurate to work. A lower case instead of upper case, nought instead of zero and forget it.
Email is different to phone in that once an email is sent to you, its socially accepted that you can reciprocate. Somehow its less threatening and 'safer' to send an email than make a phone call.
I guess it would be a kind of 'online game' in reverse, where you meet the woman first, exchange emails, then progress.
If I ever get round to experimenting, I'll post the results!
This is something I've been wondering about also. Maybe not in the 'shotgun' fashion you're outlining, but maybe just a sort of 'email' card with my name and email on it instead of asking for a phone number? See, the way I figure it a lot of people can't actually remember their own email address, and bear in mind if you get an email address its got to be dead accurate to work. A lower case instead of upper case, nought instead of zero and forget it.
Email is different to phone in that once an email is sent to you, its socially accepted that you can reciprocate. Somehow its less threatening and 'safer' to send an email than make a phone call.
I guess it would be a kind of 'online game' in reverse, where you meet the woman first, exchange emails, then progress.
If I ever get round to experimenting, I'll post the results!
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
What do you make of the original post when it was said:Centaurion said:
Makes me wonder.Zero Hero said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Sure, sounds like a great idea. Let us know how the results go.Muzzlehatch said:
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Feel better now? Thanks for proving my point. No wonder you are passing out business cards like a schoolboy passing out notes in class and then running away. Not having the capacity to have an interesting conversation and afraid of rejection, leaving it up to the woman to do the pursuing so he can save his ego. By the way, good screen name, it fits you perfectly.Zero Hero said:
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
Listen.
Here is an outline of a pick up :
1) introduction --> 2) building rapport --> 3) getting contact info --> 4) date --> 5) more rapport --> 6) boinking
Unless you are Brad fvcking Pitt, you can't skip over 2) and go straight to 3). Chicks would be like 'wtf?' if you start handing out BCs left and right within minutes of meeting them. And also who in the hell would hand out BCs with all your business info to chicks they met right off the street? Stupid.
If you want to follow this approach get your self some social cards, with just your name, phone no and email.
Here is an outline of a pick up :
1) introduction --> 2) building rapport --> 3) getting contact info --> 4) date --> 5) more rapport --> 6) boinking
Unless you are Brad fvcking Pitt, you can't skip over 2) and go straight to 3). Chicks would be like 'wtf?' if you start handing out BCs left and right within minutes of meeting them. And also who in the hell would hand out BCs with all your business info to chicks they met right off the street? Stupid.
If you want to follow this approach get your self some social cards, with just your name, phone no and email.
Something sort of on topic, but not really.
My father used to be quite a player, back in the day.
Anyways... he made up cards that said... "Fvck Off, Have a Nice Day!"
... and would give them to any UG's that tried to pick him up, or any b!tch that blew him off.
Like... "Coolcool baby... well if you change your mind, here's my card"
lol
Good Ol' Pops'
My father used to be quite a player, back in the day.
Anyways... he made up cards that said... "Fvck Off, Have a Nice Day!"
... and would give them to any UG's that tried to pick him up, or any b!tch that blew him off.
Like... "Coolcool baby... well if you change your mind, here's my card"
lol
Good Ol' Pops'
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Useless. You have a 1 in 100 chance of getting her to call you back. A better idea is to throw a bash and give out invitations to every girl you see. Works especially well if you live in a trendy, downtown resort area and are within walking distance, and are popular.Zero Hero said:
lolz
i read something like this in some book i was reading, its better to make a card that says "smile if you'll sleep with me" with ure numba on the back and give em a cheesy thumbs up lol theyll laff & smile so ure pretty much in!
i read something like this in some book i was reading, its better to make a card that says "smile if you'll sleep with me" with ure numba on the back and give em a cheesy thumbs up lol theyll laff & smile so ure pretty much in!
~attrACTION~
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Hahahaha! That's priceless! You know if you don't mind I'm going to do that...actually, this seems cool too:DarkLight said:
This thread gave me an idea...not give out business cards, but how about just having "business cards" that say funny stuff...say something funny like the "smile if you'll sleep with me" thing, except you only take it out for her to write her number on, and it's not really something you call attention to.sheep-man said:
Like, she gives you her number, and you give her this "funny card" with your real name but fake/comical credentials...
I'm going to do this.
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