"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Burning 100 calories walking VS 100 calories intense workout

DJnoob

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same or not same?

I've always wondered about this

Ex: i walk to burn 100 calories (15 minutes to complete)

VS

I do intense lifting, intense cardio w/ resistance to burn 100 calories? (15 minutes to complete)

same?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Most people don't know what intense cardio is. You should be completely gassed, lungs on fire, and near total exertion. Typically it takes sprints, or wrestling. But if you do actual high-intensity cardio, then yes there are a lot of benefits to it. 4-6 hours post-workout, your body will convert even junk carbs to muscle. Most guys I knew from mma were ripped, but ate garbage. I drank a 6-pack of beer every night, and still had very low body fat. I don't know if 15 min is enough, the studies were done on wrestlers who practiced 2 hours, but there are other health benefits to high-intensity cardio as well.
 

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My understanding is that HIT gets you more ripped without the associated muscle loss of LIT. I.e., you get that 'fast twist' look, rather than look like a skinny runner.

I do both. I do sprints sometimes in the morning, and I walk in the afternoon (mostly for my back, not really to burn calories).
 

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Most people don't know what intense cardio is. You should be completely gassed, lungs on fire, and near total exertion. Typically it takes sprints, or wrestling. But if you do actual high-intensity cardio, then yes there are a lot of benefits to it. 4-6 hours post-workout, your body will convert even junk carbs to muscle. Most guys I knew from mma were ripped, but ate garbage. I drank a 6-pack of beer every night, and still had very low body fat. I don't know if 15 min is enough, the studies were done on wrestlers who practiced 2 hours, but there are other health benefits to high-intensity cardio as well.
You can get great benefits from doing it for 5 minutes after you lift...researchers found it created huge spikes in Growth Hormone versus people who did no HIIT after lifting. Also properly done Tabata is only 6 minutes long, but might be among the hardest things to actually accomplish in the gym.

It causes something called EPOC--Excess Post-Exercise Oxygen Consumption(same as doing fast paced lifting with short rest breaks), which dramatically increases the rate at which you burn calories and can stay elevated for 24-48 hours after one of these sessions. Essentially your body becomes "wrecked" from this type of workout and it freaks out and expends great amounts of energy to put itself "back to normal". The energy for this comes almost purely from fat stores as well as an added bonus.
 

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That's like saying if I lose 100 pennies on the train or on the bus, which one will lose me the most money? :p
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Your body reacts to stronger stimuli. Walking is a much weaker stimuli than actual lifting so you are more likely to wear and tear your body without gaining anything than when lifting.
 

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Most people don't know what intense cardio is. You should be completely gassed, lungs on fire, and near total exertion. Typically it takes sprints, or wrestling. But if you do actual high-intensity cardio, then yes there are a lot of benefits to it. 4-6 hours post-workout, your body will convert even junk carbs to muscle. Most guys I knew from mma were ripped, but ate garbage. I drank a 6-pack of beer every night, and still had very low body fat. I don't know if 15 min is enough, the studies were done on wrestlers who practiced 2 hours, but there are other health benefits to high-intensity cardio as well.
6 minutes is enough if you do it right. Look up the studies on Tabata.
 
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