"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Any of you cats ever have a ex-GF who burned bridges with you ever try to comeback into your life?

Just a thought...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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They can come a knockin' but you don't have to let them in.
 

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Francis,

That comment reminded me of Indiana Jones 3, where the guy says,"Tough luck, kid. Just because you lost today, doesn't mean you have to like it." He gives him the hat that would be his patented trademark.

Funny how almost six years ago you go from finding out an Ex is married through her mother. No invite received. To six years wanting to find out if I still care. It makes me angry somewhat.

Why she'd think I'd take her back with kids as a reminder of her marriage..I'll never know? I really hate to say it but that would be like rubbing it in my face, after telling me we had no chance of getting back together. :kick: Maybe I was an AFC....HAAA...I WAS AN AFC. Maybe I should have Cave-Man styled it? it's too late fo maybays.

Thanks! I been around. But not enough to be tolerant of someone pickin at an OLD wound.

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DoubleA said:
:woo: FRANCIS?? Is your time so stretched that you can't type 'co' for a guy??!!

Anyway, consider this; if you are living your life right as not to have let the breakup hold you down, your ex may want you back because you have become a better man. As long as you see yourself as having outgrown her you're safe. Guys who felt as if they were lucky she would date a guy like them normally go back and end up getting burned again.

Francis... Pfffftttt......
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
:woo: FRANCIS?? Is your time so stretched that you can't type 'co' for a guy??!!

Anyway, consider this; if you are living your life right as not to have let the breakup hold you down, your ex may want you back because you have become a better man. As long as you see yourself as having outgrown her you're safe. Guys who felt as if they were lucky she would date a guy like them normally go back and end up getting burned again.

Francis... Pfffftttt......
Francisco,

My bad!

I am a better man. I don't know if I've "outgrown" her. I can't say. I know what I can tolerate. But I can say I'm not into getting sloppy seconds, if you know what I mean. She wasn't thinking about me now when she got hitched and had kids, right?

Life is funny.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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