"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Any of you cats ever have a ex-GF who burned bridges with you ever try to comeback into your life?

Just a thought...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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They can come a knockin' but you don't have to let them in.
 
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Francis,

That comment reminded me of Indiana Jones 3, where the guy says,"Tough luck, kid. Just because you lost today, doesn't mean you have to like it." He gives him the hat that would be his patented trademark.

Funny how almost six years ago you go from finding out an Ex is married through her mother. No invite received. To six years wanting to find out if I still care. It makes me angry somewhat.

Why she'd think I'd take her back with kids as a reminder of her marriage..I'll never know? I really hate to say it but that would be like rubbing it in my face, after telling me we had no chance of getting back together. :kick: Maybe I was an AFC....HAAA...I WAS AN AFC. Maybe I should have Cave-Man styled it? it's too late fo maybays.

Thanks! I been around. But not enough to be tolerant of someone pickin at an OLD wound.

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Francis,
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:woo: FRANCIS?? Is your time so stretched that you can't type 'co' for a guy??!!

Anyway, consider this; if you are living your life right as not to have let the breakup hold you down, your ex may want you back because you have become a better man. As long as you see yourself as having outgrown her you're safe. Guys who felt as if they were lucky she would date a guy like them normally go back and end up getting burned again.

Francis... Pfffftttt......
 
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
:woo: FRANCIS?? Is your time so stretched that you can't type 'co' for a guy??!!

Anyway, consider this; if you are living your life right as not to have let the breakup hold you down, your ex may want you back because you have become a better man. As long as you see yourself as having outgrown her you're safe. Guys who felt as if they were lucky she would date a guy like them normally go back and end up getting burned again.

Francis... Pfffftttt......
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Francisco,

My bad!

I am a better man. I don't know if I've "outgrown" her. I can't say. I know what I can tolerate. But I can say I'm not into getting sloppy seconds, if you know what I mean. She wasn't thinking about me now when she got hitched and had kids, right?

Life is funny.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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