"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bumping into your ex?

Iceberg_Itsover

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If your ex goes to the same college/university as you do and occasionaly you bump into each other what would you do?

This happened to me recently and when i see that she see's me i just completely ignore her and continue doing what i do. I would say hi to her but the way she looks at me and looks elsewhere really fast pretending that i don't exist just makes it all different.
Am i right in ignoring her the way she does to me?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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foomee

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It's obviously bothering her... show her that it doesn't bother you and give a little wave or smile, and then continue what you're doing like talking to your friend or something.
 

bigshot

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im in the same situation as u mate, my ex goes to my college. what your ex does to u, is the same that my ex does to me. i just ignore her the same way.
just get on with your life:up:
 

Vypros

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She's your ex.

Let me say that again:

SHE'S YOUR EX.

Worrying about what you should do or what she thinks is akin to worrying about what the weather is going to be on any given day: A COMPLETE WASTE OF YOUR TIME AND TOTALLY USELESS WORRYING.

Forget about it, move on with your life, and stop caring how you are supposed to act with your ex.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Don't base your character by her actions. If you a normally a cordial guy, be cordial. You don't have to act live long lost friends but come on, don't you think it's a bit silly the way that she's acting (enough than you had to write a post about it)? So why act as silly if it isn't of your nature (or is it)?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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TruthHurts

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foomee said:
It's obviously bothering her....
and also bothering you.... its your x.. move on.. forget about it...

say hi.. if she acts weird or like a *****, what would you do to people like that IGNORE them and go about your daily business!
 
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