"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bumping into your ex?

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Iceberg_Itsover

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If your ex goes to the same college/university as you do and occasionaly you bump into each other what would you do?

This happened to me recently and when i see that she see's me i just completely ignore her and continue doing what i do. I would say hi to her but the way she looks at me and looks elsewhere really fast pretending that i don't exist just makes it all different.
Am i right in ignoring her the way she does to me?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It's obviously bothering her... show her that it doesn't bother you and give a little wave or smile, and then continue what you're doing like talking to your friend or something.
 
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im in the same situation as u mate, my ex goes to my college. what your ex does to u, is the same that my ex does to me. i just ignore her the same way.
just get on with your life:up:
 
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She's your ex.

Let me say that again:

SHE'S YOUR EX.

Worrying about what you should do or what she thinks is akin to worrying about what the weather is going to be on any given day: A COMPLETE WASTE OF YOUR TIME AND TOTALLY USELESS WORRYING.

Forget about it, move on with your life, and stop caring how you are supposed to act with your ex.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Don't base your character by her actions. If you a normally a cordial guy, be cordial. You don't have to act live long lost friends but come on, don't you think it's a bit silly the way that she's acting (enough than you had to write a post about it)? So why act as silly if it isn't of your nature (or is it)?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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foomee said:
It's obviously bothering her....
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and also bothering you.... its your x.. move on.. forget about it...

say hi.. if she acts weird or like a *****, what would you do to people like that IGNORE them and go about your daily business!
 
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