"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bumping into your ex?

Iceberg_Itsover

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If your ex goes to the same college/university as you do and occasionaly you bump into each other what would you do?

This happened to me recently and when i see that she see's me i just completely ignore her and continue doing what i do. I would say hi to her but the way she looks at me and looks elsewhere really fast pretending that i don't exist just makes it all different.
Am i right in ignoring her the way she does to me?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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foomee

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It's obviously bothering her... show her that it doesn't bother you and give a little wave or smile, and then continue what you're doing like talking to your friend or something.
 

bigshot

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im in the same situation as u mate, my ex goes to my college. what your ex does to u, is the same that my ex does to me. i just ignore her the same way.
just get on with your life:up:
 

Vypros

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She's your ex.

Let me say that again:

SHE'S YOUR EX.

Worrying about what you should do or what she thinks is akin to worrying about what the weather is going to be on any given day: A COMPLETE WASTE OF YOUR TIME AND TOTALLY USELESS WORRYING.

Forget about it, move on with your life, and stop caring how you are supposed to act with your ex.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Don't base your character by her actions. If you a normally a cordial guy, be cordial. You don't have to act live long lost friends but come on, don't you think it's a bit silly the way that she's acting (enough than you had to write a post about it)? So why act as silly if it isn't of your nature (or is it)?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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TruthHurts

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foomee said:
It's obviously bothering her....
and also bothering you.... its your x.. move on.. forget about it...

say hi.. if she acts weird or like a *****, what would you do to people like that IGNORE them and go about your daily business!
 
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