Will try keep this short.
Ran into an ex-oneitis last week in a shopping mall. I said hi, asked she was doing and smalltalked with her about 1 min. before bidding her adieu. She was shocked. Saw her on my way out of the store about 10 min later, she had a huge smile and waved. I kept going.
Yesterday I got an email from her: "I just wanted to say thanks for helping me see who I was. I think that knowing you has made me a different person than I was. I think for the better. I do really appreciate your honesty with me. I like who I am more now than I did before and I really think that it does have to do with you. Hope there are no hard feelings. I'm still sorry if there are."
Today was her 30th birthday, I figured she would write because of her birthday and I'm more buff now. I wrote her a very brief message back. Tone extremely indifferent, saying that I appreciated the comment, a lot happened since then...no hard feelings, and perhaps we'll bump into each other again sometime.
The boyfriend she has/had (don't know, don't really care) was a jerk. I've got too many things going on in my life to get AFC again.
Might she be looking for attention? Mid-life crisis?
Ran into an ex-oneitis last week in a shopping mall. I said hi, asked she was doing and smalltalked with her about 1 min. before bidding her adieu. She was shocked. Saw her on my way out of the store about 10 min later, she had a huge smile and waved. I kept going.
Yesterday I got an email from her: "I just wanted to say thanks for helping me see who I was. I think that knowing you has made me a different person than I was. I think for the better. I do really appreciate your honesty with me. I like who I am more now than I did before and I really think that it does have to do with you. Hope there are no hard feelings. I'm still sorry if there are."
Today was her 30th birthday, I figured she would write because of her birthday and I'm more buff now. I wrote her a very brief message back. Tone extremely indifferent, saying that I appreciated the comment, a lot happened since then...no hard feelings, and perhaps we'll bump into each other again sometime.
The boyfriend she has/had (don't know, don't really care) was a jerk. I've got too many things going on in my life to get AFC again.
Might she be looking for attention? Mid-life crisis?
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