"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bumping and Grinding???

RENEGADE06

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Alright guys heres my problem! I have a girlfriend and shes a dancer. You know what this means. I'm really not into dancing that much but I will just because she loves it. I mean I don't want my girl rubbing up against other guys and she loves going to clubs. So I better get on the subject of dancing so I don't look stupid in front of a DANCER!!! Alright this is a stupid question but its about Bumping and Grinding??? How do you really do it??? I mean I know you grab her on her hips and pretty much hump her butt, but is that it??? People say that you just go with her hips. Does she move her hips just forward or side to side??? Do I just hump her with the music with lite taps or do i go hard at it??? Need some help!!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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texmex23

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well first of all your not gonna be like humping like a dog, your crotch is gonna be on her butt and just move with her hips like one of the other people told you...but here's a little tip, every once in a while grab her hips and you move her where you want to sway
 

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Do a search, this has been covered a lot.... Plus first post look at the top right corner of this screen. New here? Read the DJ Bible. Yeah

It's all covered in there

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gbpackers

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Are you asking how to grind? Just go behind her and she will shake her ass and just keep your crotch touching her ass .. and you can grab her hips and sway her in the direction you want and you do the same.

If she does the vibrate type thing where she vibrates her ass fast.. you just stand there with your crotch touching her ass :p
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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dadmonson

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Um he's talken about dancin, not dry sex. Or is it the same thing?
 

PiHiPlaya

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Dry Sex = Dancing

I remember when I was a fresman at my first school dance I was in awe, I asked a girl what we were supposed to do and she said this and I quote "F--ing Shove your D--k up their A--"

yes, you're gonna get wood, girls don't care... have fun
 

dadmonson

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Mayne I wish I was at your school because my school has banned that kind of dancing. All of our dances was canceled last year because of it.
 

idiot_boyfriend

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Just act like an idiot and have a hell of a lot of fun....

and shes a dancer
Oh....well that would be even more fun.

Just start dancing without any worries, anxieties, etc, etc....because it'll probably show in your motions. Have fun and while you're into it, just ask her if she'd show you the ropes. Follow and listen closely....as we know, women always like good-listeners.

If she starts dancing with other guys, just dance with other gals. She shouldn't be the only one having fun.
 
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