"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bumping and Grinding???

RENEGADE06

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Alright guys heres my problem! I have a girlfriend and shes a dancer. You know what this means. I'm really not into dancing that much but I will just because she loves it. I mean I don't want my girl rubbing up against other guys and she loves going to clubs. So I better get on the subject of dancing so I don't look stupid in front of a DANCER!!! Alright this is a stupid question but its about Bumping and Grinding??? How do you really do it??? I mean I know you grab her on her hips and pretty much hump her butt, but is that it??? People say that you just go with her hips. Does she move her hips just forward or side to side??? Do I just hump her with the music with lite taps or do i go hard at it??? Need some help!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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texmex23

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well first of all your not gonna be like humping like a dog, your crotch is gonna be on her butt and just move with her hips like one of the other people told you...but here's a little tip, every once in a while grab her hips and you move her where you want to sway
 

PiHiPlaya

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Do a search, this has been covered a lot.... Plus first post look at the top right corner of this screen. New here? Read the DJ Bible. Yeah

It's all covered in there

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gbpackers

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Are you asking how to grind? Just go behind her and she will shake her ass and just keep your crotch touching her ass .. and you can grab her hips and sway her in the direction you want and you do the same.

If she does the vibrate type thing where she vibrates her ass fast.. you just stand there with your crotch touching her ass :p
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dadmonson

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Um he's talken about dancin, not dry sex. Or is it the same thing?
 

PiHiPlaya

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Dry Sex = Dancing

I remember when I was a fresman at my first school dance I was in awe, I asked a girl what we were supposed to do and she said this and I quote "F--ing Shove your D--k up their A--"

yes, you're gonna get wood, girls don't care... have fun
 

dadmonson

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Mayne I wish I was at your school because my school has banned that kind of dancing. All of our dances was canceled last year because of it.
 

idiot_boyfriend

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Just act like an idiot and have a hell of a lot of fun....

and shes a dancer
Oh....well that would be even more fun.

Just start dancing without any worries, anxieties, etc, etc....because it'll probably show in your motions. Have fun and while you're into it, just ask her if she'd show you the ropes. Follow and listen closely....as we know, women always like good-listeners.

If she starts dancing with other guys, just dance with other gals. She shouldn't be the only one having fun.
 
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