"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bumble girl starts convo

MrJack

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Bumble girl starts a convo with me by saying

"You're cute"

(Duh, we matched)

For some reason I always get confused on how to respond to that.

Lots of people say "you're not too bad yourself"

But that's too cliche for me and they either don't respond back to that or they do respond with something like "thanks" and the convo is dead after that.

Anyone got any good/witty responses to this?

I feel afc asking but f*ck it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Building_and_Loan

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You're right, you do come across as afc, wondering and stressing how to respond to one girl on Bumble you'll probably never meet.

Just soft ignore it and ask what she's up to, how her day's going, etc. Small talk alone won't get you laid, so don't worry about that "perfect reply"
 

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If you're interested, hit her with this-

"If you think I'm cute in pics, wait until you see me in person. When are you free for a drink"
 

MrJack

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You're right, you do come across as afc, wondering and stressing how to respond to one girl on Bumble you'll probably never meet.

Just soft ignore it and ask what she's up to, how her day's going, etc. Small talk alone won't get you laid, so don't worry about that "perfect reply"
It's not that I'm looking for the perfect reply it's moreso girls have said this a lot to me in the past and it always goes nowhere. Was just wondering what others say.

I got a couple plates in rotation so not stressing lol
 
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