Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Bumble girl starts convo

MrJack

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Bumble girl starts a convo with me by saying

"You're cute"

(Duh, we matched)

For some reason I always get confused on how to respond to that.

Lots of people say "you're not too bad yourself"

But that's too cliche for me and they either don't respond back to that or they do respond with something like "thanks" and the convo is dead after that.

Anyone got any good/witty responses to this?

I feel afc asking but f*ck it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Building_and_Loan

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You're right, you do come across as afc, wondering and stressing how to respond to one girl on Bumble you'll probably never meet.

Just soft ignore it and ask what she's up to, how her day's going, etc. Small talk alone won't get you laid, so don't worry about that "perfect reply"
 

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If you're interested, hit her with this-

"If you think I'm cute in pics, wait until you see me in person. When are you free for a drink"
 

MrJack

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You're right, you do come across as afc, wondering and stressing how to respond to one girl on Bumble you'll probably never meet.

Just soft ignore it and ask what she's up to, how her day's going, etc. Small talk alone won't get you laid, so don't worry about that "perfect reply"
It's not that I'm looking for the perfect reply it's moreso girls have said this a lot to me in the past and it always goes nowhere. Was just wondering what others say.

I got a couple plates in rotation so not stressing lol
 
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