Bumble app

[RickTheToad]

Someone told me about this Bumble and I jumped on. I am a bit confused on how it works. I think it goes where two people "match" and then if they do, both are moved to a chatting cue. You then have to wait for the woman to start conversing. I have around 11 "matches", but only a few have started to chat.

Since there is nothing to ask them in their profile, what do you initially chat about? I've tried with one to move from the app to getting drinks after chatting three or for times, she said she wanted to get to know me better. I just said, I understand and left it at that. Usually, on Match, they say sure, and proceed to give me their number. She's 36, my age, so unless she wants pen-pals, I am not sure what to do.

Anyone have success with bumble? Seems more active than Match.

 

[skinnyguy]

Bumble is great for women because it gives them all the power. It was created by a woman who got sick of men spam messaging her on Match.

 

[Isildur1]

Bumble is an awful way to meet women, you're literally immediately setting yourself out as the beta when you use it. You're basically saying " I'm not good enough to cold approach or meet women or pick the women I desire so I'm gonna make them pick me. " It's an awful way to start a relationship and you will be just one of many other choices to the girl.

The best way to create options is to cold approach and join clubs of things you're passionate about. That way you will find girls who respect you for you and who appreciate your alphaness

 

[RickTheToad]

Bumble is an awful way to meet women, you're literally immediately setting yourself out as the beta when you use it. You're basically saying " I'm not good enough to cold approach or meet women or pick the women I desire so I'm gonna make them pick me. " It's an awful way to start a relationship and you will be just one of many other choices to the girl.

The best way to create options is to cold approach and join clubs of things you're passionate about. That way you will find girls who respect you for you and who appreciate your alphaness

It's similar to all online dating. In my line of work, not many women around. Still mainly men dominated industry. Too old for clubs at 36. I've had nearly 14 women chat me up, so at least I've knocked down the ugly theory. Less than 5% on Match.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Someone told me about this Bumble and I jumped on. I am a bit confused on how it works. I think it goes where two people "match" and then if they do, both are moved to a chatting cue. You then have to wait for the woman to start conversing. I have around 11 "matches", but only a few have started to chat.

Since there is nothing to ask them in their profile, what do you initially chat about? I've tried with one to move from the app to getting drinks after chatting three or for times, she said she wanted to get to know me better. I just said, I understand and left it at that. Usually, on Match, they say sure, and proceed to give me their number. She's 36, my age, so unless she wants pen-pals, I am not sure what to do.

Anyone have success with bumble? Seems more active than Match.

Tinder 2.0 only, women must msg or it unmatched.

Women use tinder for Chad's and collect matches to blow up her sociopathy.

Bumble is not perfect but better IMHO.