"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bullying: How to do so in (adult) life?

SamePendo

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Hey guys!

I just remembered I wanted to ask this for a while now!

What form of (friendly) bullying do you recommend? Verbal or physical, any tips you can give?

I recently read here a post, about some guy *****ing about some guy bullying him, and a poster came up with something I find hilarious, grabbing a guy by the waist, his back towards you, and push him up and down, as if you were fvcking him!

Any tips for (friendly) bullying?

Yes, this is childish and whatnot, save your negative comments, this is about friendly bullying, not about making someones life miserable.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Watch The Office and play pranks on your co workers/friends like they do.
 

Jariel

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Yeah, simulated rape is always great fun and really shows them who's boss!

Maybe after that you could kidnap his mother and pretend you're going to kill her!

Seriously though Samependo, I think some 14 year old kid has hacked your account!
 

SamePendo

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Jariel said:
Yeah, simulated rape is always great fun and really shows them who's boss!

Maybe after that you could kidnap his mother and pretend you're going to kill her!

Seriously though Samependo, I think some 14 year old kid has hacked your account!
Yeah! Simulated rape is always great fun! :up:

Those nerdy/sticklike guys are always fun to man handle!

Ideas guys, ideas!
 

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One idea is to get over it and not let it bug you so much. Just asking the question means he's got all this power over you. And whatever you do, is going to make this guy want to pick on you more.

One thing you could try is, "Dude, do you have a f'ing problem?"
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SamePendo

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Bump!
 

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One way is to admit your homosexual tendencies and stop hiding with the cover of "bullying" other guys by "pretending" to **** their ass.
 
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