"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bullying: How to do so in (adult) life?

SamePendo

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Hey guys!

I just remembered I wanted to ask this for a while now!

What form of (friendly) bullying do you recommend? Verbal or physical, any tips you can give?

I recently read here a post, about some guy *****ing about some guy bullying him, and a poster came up with something I find hilarious, grabbing a guy by the waist, his back towards you, and push him up and down, as if you were fvcking him!

Any tips for (friendly) bullying?

Yes, this is childish and whatnot, save your negative comments, this is about friendly bullying, not about making someones life miserable.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Watch The Office and play pranks on your co workers/friends like they do.
 

Jariel

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Yeah, simulated rape is always great fun and really shows them who's boss!

Maybe after that you could kidnap his mother and pretend you're going to kill her!

Seriously though Samependo, I think some 14 year old kid has hacked your account!
 

SamePendo

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Jariel said:
Yeah, simulated rape is always great fun and really shows them who's boss!

Maybe after that you could kidnap his mother and pretend you're going to kill her!

Seriously though Samependo, I think some 14 year old kid has hacked your account!
Yeah! Simulated rape is always great fun! :up:

Those nerdy/sticklike guys are always fun to man handle!

Ideas guys, ideas!
 

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One idea is to get over it and not let it bug you so much. Just asking the question means he's got all this power over you. And whatever you do, is going to make this guy want to pick on you more.

One thing you could try is, "Dude, do you have a f'ing problem?"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SamePendo

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Bump!
 

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One way is to admit your homosexual tendencies and stop hiding with the cover of "bullying" other guys by "pretending" to **** their ass.
 
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