"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Bullsh*t?

G Rambo34

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im sure most of you guys are familiar with facebook. anyway i like this girl who goes to another school that i recently met. we walked and she gave me alota IOIs. anyway, as im sure many of you have experienced, i chekced her facebook and it says that she is in a relationship with somebody. the reason im hesistant about this is because alot of people, girls and boys, say that they are in a relationship on facebook. even sometimes saying married. sometimes people are joking, sometimes they arent. how could i decide if shes actually with him? should i pursue her regardless? what would u guys do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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john paul

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Keep going for it but be careful, she may just be looking for attention and not really interested in you. Be looking for red flags. If she doesnt bring up a boyfriend then your good to go and can just act oblivious to the relationship if you ever get approached her boyfriend, if she even has one that is.

so yea just ignore it.
 
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