"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bullsh*t?

G Rambo34

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im sure most of you guys are familiar with facebook. anyway i like this girl who goes to another school that i recently met. we walked and she gave me alota IOIs. anyway, as im sure many of you have experienced, i chekced her facebook and it says that she is in a relationship with somebody. the reason im hesistant about this is because alot of people, girls and boys, say that they are in a relationship on facebook. even sometimes saying married. sometimes people are joking, sometimes they arent. how could i decide if shes actually with him? should i pursue her regardless? what would u guys do?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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john paul

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Keep going for it but be careful, she may just be looking for attention and not really interested in you. Be looking for red flags. If she doesnt bring up a boyfriend then your good to go and can just act oblivious to the relationship if you ever get approached her boyfriend, if she even has one that is.

so yea just ignore it.
 
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