"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bullsh*t detector on full

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I was wondering,

What does a Master DJ do when his bullsh*t detector goes full ding, and she just WON'T admit she's lying.

I was talking to this girl, and she said something about multiple apartments, and so, I played a long and made a joke about it. But she kept persisting, so I told her I didn't believe her (in a polite way), and she just told me I was a waste of time and left.

I should've made a rude comment, or left her before.

Fortunately, like any good advice, I didn't let it get to me, but I just want to know:

How could I better handle such situations?

Other situations would be:

If she's taken
If she says she's taken, but you can tell she isn't

etc.

I know attraction is subliminal and it's not a decision, but are there anyways to get around that without making yourself look like a needy fool when you find out she's not into you?

Thanks

--iMat
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=57474

there was some talk about BS* detecting in this thread...

anyway...

when she won't admit she's lying you let her be... just end it.Let her win... there was a thread about this too a while back... and that was the consensus of the group...

If you fight it she just get's pissed and even if you win you'll pay later....

as for the taken thing... do a search....all these questions ahve been asked a few times on this boared

Have a God Day

Good luck:D
Capi
 
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Originally posted by CapiCrimini
as for the taken thing... do a search....all these questions ahve been asked a few times on this board
Click to expand...
over 80% of the threads on this board have been asked before or are in another thread, most just don't either:
A.)do a search
B.)read the bible

Edit: instead of driving up my post count I have decided to just edit it and answer your question.

Upper right hand cornor. and it says New Here?
We suggest checking out The DJ Bible before posting.
 
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It would be nice if someone could post a link to the Bible. I've gone through the boot camp, and gone through a lot of David DeAngelo's material, but I still can't find the Bible.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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