"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Bulking.. but getting fatter as well

MattB

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I have been lifting hard and eating lots (no fried foods, pop drinks ) and now I am bulking up. Lately though, it seems that my weight is stuck at 148 (with strength increasing). My arms are not getting that much bigger but they are getting stronger. I also notice that fat are slowly acculmulating around my waist and chest..:(

is something wrong with my diet?

I try to eat as much meat as I can and starting from today I will remove white rice from diet

and also I usually eat right before i sleep for my forth meals
is that a good idea?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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marqZAL

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Eat what you want....your not goign to gain muscle with out fat...so eat what you want....just make sure to get enough carbs and protien....at148 why worry about a little fat
 

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You have just expressed my main fears about trying to bulk up and gain weight. 148 pounds may technically not be a lot, but I imagine it must be very unsettling to see yourself. I try not to focus on how much I weigh anyway, because there are so many factors that determine it, it can be misleading. When I started working out, I got rid of the bathroom scale. I'd rather judge how I'm doing based on how I look and feel (but mainly look.:))

I know you say you've been lifting pretty hard, but I'm thinking that perhaps it may have something to do with workout routine, rather than diet. I don't know, could this be possible?
 
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AfroThunder1986

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I feel your pain, I'm also trying to bulk up but I don't have a car yet so i went and bought weights. I've gained about 5 pounds so I'm up to 146 (Im 5'6) I agree with what the other gentleman said bathroom scales suck. Welp cheers... heres to us both bulking up haha. GOOD LUCK BRO
 

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Okay

60/20/20

60 protein
20 carbs
20 fats

What do I eat when cutting/

Tuna, chicken breast from G foreman grill

No bread, fruit, sugar.. grains,
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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