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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bulking.. but getting fatter as well

MattB

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I have been lifting hard and eating lots (no fried foods, pop drinks ) and now I am bulking up. Lately though, it seems that my weight is stuck at 148 (with strength increasing). My arms are not getting that much bigger but they are getting stronger. I also notice that fat are slowly acculmulating around my waist and chest..:(

is something wrong with my diet?

I try to eat as much meat as I can and starting from today I will remove white rice from diet

and also I usually eat right before i sleep for my forth meals
is that a good idea?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

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Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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marqZAL

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Eat what you want....your not goign to gain muscle with out fat...so eat what you want....just make sure to get enough carbs and protien....at148 why worry about a little fat
 

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You have just expressed my main fears about trying to bulk up and gain weight. 148 pounds may technically not be a lot, but I imagine it must be very unsettling to see yourself. I try not to focus on how much I weigh anyway, because there are so many factors that determine it, it can be misleading. When I started working out, I got rid of the bathroom scale. I'd rather judge how I'm doing based on how I look and feel (but mainly look.:))

I know you say you've been lifting pretty hard, but I'm thinking that perhaps it may have something to do with workout routine, rather than diet. I don't know, could this be possible?
 
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AfroThunder1986

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I feel your pain, I'm also trying to bulk up but I don't have a car yet so i went and bought weights. I've gained about 5 pounds so I'm up to 146 (Im 5'6) I agree with what the other gentleman said bathroom scales suck. Welp cheers... heres to us both bulking up haha. GOOD LUCK BRO
 

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Okay

60/20/20

60 protein
20 carbs
20 fats

What do I eat when cutting/

Tuna, chicken breast from G foreman grill

No bread, fruit, sugar.. grains,
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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