"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Bulges, bumps?

Rashad

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Hey all, havent been here in awhile, good to be back:D

I noticed that i have these odd bulges, one on forearm, top of arm, and two on my upper leg(outer thigh). They feel almost like something hard under the skin. Also they are all on the left side of my body.

The one on my upper arm hurts when pushed on, and has a purple vein thats pretty visible.. the other ones dont hurt. I was wondering if anyone had any experience with this kind of thing.

I know, i know.. see a doctor.. i cant at the moment so any help is appreciated. I was thinking it may be thyroid or even cancer(hope not:( ).

Thanks~
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Personally I think, big bump=something bad.. really bad. Could be cancer or something. Go see a docter, I seriously don't know so that's my only advice. Big bump=very dangerously bad.
 

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Sounds like vericos veins to me, my father had them on his leg. I'm pretty sure surgery is the only long term solution for vericos.
 

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Hmm. well these are deeper than veins.. and just round.. kinda feels like a hard nipple..lol.. thats the best example.. its just something hard and squishy.. under skin, no real discolor except the one that hurts has a small purplish vein visible..

Any other thoughts?
 

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go see a doctor already

forum members know only so much (myself included :) )
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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