"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bulges, bumps?

Rashad

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Hey all, havent been here in awhile, good to be back:D

I noticed that i have these odd bulges, one on forearm, top of arm, and two on my upper leg(outer thigh). They feel almost like something hard under the skin. Also they are all on the left side of my body.

The one on my upper arm hurts when pushed on, and has a purple vein thats pretty visible.. the other ones dont hurt. I was wondering if anyone had any experience with this kind of thing.

I know, i know.. see a doctor.. i cant at the moment so any help is appreciated. I was thinking it may be thyroid or even cancer(hope not:( ).

Thanks~
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Saine

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Personally I think, big bump=something bad.. really bad. Could be cancer or something. Go see a docter, I seriously don't know so that's my only advice. Big bump=very dangerously bad.
 

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Sounds like vericos veins to me, my father had them on his leg. I'm pretty sure surgery is the only long term solution for vericos.
 

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Hmm. well these are deeper than veins.. and just round.. kinda feels like a hard nipple..lol.. thats the best example.. its just something hard and squishy.. under skin, no real discolor except the one that hurts has a small purplish vein visible..

Any other thoughts?
 

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go see a doctor already

forum members know only so much (myself included :) )
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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