"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Building up a social media following?

Crissco

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Hey SoSuave. Been a long time. Merry Christmas and happy holidays to all!

To make a long story short, I want to start building up a social media following (Late to the game I know). I would prefer if mainly woman follow me, but I wanted to SS opinion on how to build up a following then capitalize on it. As of late I don’t have many cool hobbies or adventures I’m going in. Can anyone think of anything I / we can do to build up a following that will make woman follow you?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NealIRC

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if you to have a big following to impress women, you're wasting your time.Yes it can help a bit, but you dont need it to get hot girls. If you want to be popular on social medias it means that you need to fix some issues (self esteem, insecurity, etc). You need approval, validation from women.
Not very attractive.
You develop an on-line woman fan base, for real life. So when you walk around in the mall, women can recognize you.
 
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