Ok from the top. I recently broke up from a long term relationship, and im over the worst of it, so im trying to build my game. Now ive started trying to talk to random girls to break the hesitation and nervousness barrier. So today i was walking down the road, as you do, and i was wearing my gym gear on the way home (looking kinda pumped might i add). I see a cute girl standing at the bus stop and give her a smile right, she returns it. So i walk past her deciding whether or not to speak to her, and end up stopping short just down the road. So there i am thinking, 'wtf do i do? Screw it im goin for it'. So i turn around and go back to the girl at the bus stop and ask straight up, 'Are you single?' with a smile on my face and a fist full of confidence. She shyly says yes, and asks me if this is a joke lol, in a calm and confident manor i assured her i wasnt joking around and that I was genuinly interested. Now this is where i was stumped, what the hell do i say next? How do i build 'rapport'? And whats the best method of approaching a girl? Like a fool i asked for the number straight up only realising my mistake a few nano seconds later! But jus to save me the awkwardness, the bus arrived on que and she made a quick exit. But im definately sure she was interested, as she wasnt really freaked out, more baffled/giggly, and wondering whether i was genuine. How do i guarantee myself that number next time?!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Building some rapport...
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