"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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building rapport and LJBF zone conflict

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antidonjuan

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After flirting with this girl for a while in school, I added her on msn this day and she starts to talk about conceptions of life to me. What is she trying to do? If I follow her conversation talking about life (stand up after failures etc..), will that be dangerous cuz that will land to LJBF zone? Or is it fine to follow her try to build some rapport?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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I think it's a bit dangerous....I don't think you should be talking to her so much right away. You're supposed to be busy!
 
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antidonjuan

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yea that's what i did, i just said: oh i g2g somewhere
but how do i actually build rapport?
 
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