"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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building rapport and LJBF zone conflict

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antidonjuan

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After flirting with this girl for a while in school, I added her on msn this day and she starts to talk about conceptions of life to me. What is she trying to do? If I follow her conversation talking about life (stand up after failures etc..), will that be dangerous cuz that will land to LJBF zone? Or is it fine to follow her try to build some rapport?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think it's a bit dangerous....I don't think you should be talking to her so much right away. You're supposed to be busy!
 
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antidonjuan

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yea that's what i did, i just said: oh i g2g somewhere
but how do i actually build rapport?
 
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