noviceplaya
Don Juan
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Thanks for the advice on my other post. Now i need sum help on building confidence. I need the fastest or easiest way so can sum1 please help me.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Building Confidence
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I have a pill that can give you confidence in 5 minutes tops.
There is no fast or easy way, you just have to get out and experience and don't be afraid to do so.
Don't be afraid to embarass yourself infront of 3,000 people.
When I am afraid to do something, I look at myself and question my thoughts then just go and do it because I know that i am the most alpha character in my life and caint shti hold the boy back.
Ballistik
Don Juan
Just gotta do it. Sieze the next opportunity. I went to the mall today and, although I'm already to the point where I can skip the first two weeks, decided to try some of Week 1 of the DJ Boot Camp. Eye contact with every single person I saw, some his and hellos, about a half-dozen random conversations. Nothing to it, and a few of 'em were definite hotties. Makes ya feel good.
And ya know what? Eventually you'll find that you do the most basic stuff without thinking. As I was leaving, this punk-looking guy, probably about 20, was walking up to me and looking right at me. A month ago, I would have looked anywhere else. Not this time. Without even thinking about it, I met his gaze, the whole way through. Only realized what I'd done after it happened. That's when you know you're starting to build confidence.
And ya know what? Eventually you'll find that you do the most basic stuff without thinking. As I was leaving, this punk-looking guy, probably about 20, was walking up to me and looking right at me. A month ago, I would have looked anywhere else. Not this time. Without even thinking about it, I met his gaze, the whole way through. Only realized what I'd done after it happened. That's when you know you're starting to build confidence.
Supero Masculus
Don Juan
Confidence is muchly made of experiance. And the only way to get experiance is to be bold. And the only way to be bold is... oh screw it. As shown there, you cannot over anaylize shyt. Just do. That doesn't mean act on every impulse, it means process the idea and do it. Unless its going to get you killed or severly maimed
You only live once!
You only live once!what do you need the confidence for. Confidence is the surge after you have jsut done something, that you feel uncomfortable doing or are scared of, progressing upwards: ie phoning up a cab company and boooking a cab, then next time stopping to compliment some girl on the street. Sports give you a hell of a lot of confidence, its that intense rush when you feel happy that yyou have done somehting and are ready to brave the world. Fights give you adrenaline rushes which are like pure heaven, (but the come downs tend to leave you shaking).
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.