"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Building an asian community site.

thebsharp

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Am in the process of starting a myspace type of site catering to the asian community. I have the fund, the knowlege and the brain to make it happen. After all i make a living working online. The site won't be exackly like myspace, it just has their features and diffrent layout.

The purpose of this site is to make a huge asian community to gather all sort of asian ethnics, setup events throw huge parties etc... which is something ive always wanted to do.

What features do you guys think that is needed on myspace? any features you guys would like to see in a community site?

Also if anyone want to join me in this venture, you can PM me. This will be a fun project ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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oakraiderz2

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Go segregation! We need one of every race, no need for having them all together, thats just silly.
 

thebsharp

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Go segregation! We need one of every race, no need for having them all together, thats just silly.
not really... there are DOZENS of myspace copycats outthere, making another one is just redundent since its super hard to compete with myspace. Have you heard of blackplanet? migente? these are ethic sites and they do quite well.
 

jiza101

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Originally posted by thebsharp
not really... there are DOZENS of myspace copycats outthere, making another one is just redundent since its super hard to compete with myspace. Have you heard of blackplanet? migente? these are ethic sites and they do quite well.
Way to seperate society even more :down:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJ_in_making

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An Asian myspace? How is that going to be fun @ all? Just myspace just with less variety?:confused:
 

Centaurion

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I think it already exists.

I know that they've got this extensive asian myspace/blog thing going on. Can't remember the link though
 

C00L

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Originally posted by Centaurion
I think it already exists.

I know that they've got this extensive asian myspace/blog thing going on. Can't remember the link though
that would be asianavenue
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TheRelic

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I'm kinda for it... I mean really... a lot of the other boards I hang around (ones relating to my study, bodybuilding, etc) are deliberatly locally geared, and that's just how I like it. Events, exhibitions, etc are all relevant, as are things concerning purchases, hangouts, and all of that. Always good to be around international ones too, gives the best of both worlds. I don't see a problem. I know if I went overseas, i'd certainly like to have some link of sorts to people of my own culture, for various reasons.
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by thebsharp
not really... there are DOZENS of myspace copycats outthere, making another one is just redundent since its super hard to compete with myspace. Have you heard of blackplanet? migente? these are ethic sites and they do quite well.
And theyre all gay and on the brink of being complete racist.
 

DrMetallica

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I'm have asian... cauc-asian, baby. And I fully embrace my cauc and my asian side.
 

thebsharp

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hmm now i know why i left this place. Lots of intellectual disscussions here.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Smooth Player 056

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What if white people started this thread: and wanted a place only for white people....you guys would think KKK and flame us.

~Smooth
 

thebsharp

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Originally posted by Levex
Take a look at www.whimit.com (thru IE)and follow suit. Great example on how to do this kinda stuff.
Woah cool looking site there, thats definally what I had in mind. There is alot of limitation with this site but still cool nontheless.

If guys have an open minded you would see there is nothing racist about an asian community site. Anyone can join but it just a gathering for asian people to relate to each other and to learn about other asian cultures.
 
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