"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Building an asian community site.

thebsharp

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Am in the process of starting a myspace type of site catering to the asian community. I have the fund, the knowlege and the brain to make it happen. After all i make a living working online. The site won't be exackly like myspace, it just has their features and diffrent layout.

The purpose of this site is to make a huge asian community to gather all sort of asian ethnics, setup events throw huge parties etc... which is something ive always wanted to do.

What features do you guys think that is needed on myspace? any features you guys would like to see in a community site?

Also if anyone want to join me in this venture, you can PM me. This will be a fun project ;)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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oakraiderz2

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Go segregation! We need one of every race, no need for having them all together, thats just silly.
 

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Go segregation! We need one of every race, no need for having them all together, thats just silly.
not really... there are DOZENS of myspace copycats outthere, making another one is just redundent since its super hard to compete with myspace. Have you heard of blackplanet? migente? these are ethic sites and they do quite well.
 

jiza101

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Originally posted by thebsharp
not really... there are DOZENS of myspace copycats outthere, making another one is just redundent since its super hard to compete with myspace. Have you heard of blackplanet? migente? these are ethic sites and they do quite well.
Way to seperate society even more :down:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DJ_in_making

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An Asian myspace? How is that going to be fun @ all? Just myspace just with less variety?:confused:
 

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I think it already exists.

I know that they've got this extensive asian myspace/blog thing going on. Can't remember the link though
 

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Originally posted by Centaurion
I think it already exists.

I know that they've got this extensive asian myspace/blog thing going on. Can't remember the link though
that would be asianavenue
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm kinda for it... I mean really... a lot of the other boards I hang around (ones relating to my study, bodybuilding, etc) are deliberatly locally geared, and that's just how I like it. Events, exhibitions, etc are all relevant, as are things concerning purchases, hangouts, and all of that. Always good to be around international ones too, gives the best of both worlds. I don't see a problem. I know if I went overseas, i'd certainly like to have some link of sorts to people of my own culture, for various reasons.
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by thebsharp
not really... there are DOZENS of myspace copycats outthere, making another one is just redundent since its super hard to compete with myspace. Have you heard of blackplanet? migente? these are ethic sites and they do quite well.
And theyre all gay and on the brink of being complete racist.
 

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I'm have asian... cauc-asian, baby. And I fully embrace my cauc and my asian side.
 

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hmm now i know why i left this place. Lots of intellectual disscussions here.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Smooth Player 056

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What if white people started this thread: and wanted a place only for white people....you guys would think KKK and flame us.

~Smooth
 

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Originally posted by Levex
Take a look at www.whimit.com (thru IE)and follow suit. Great example on how to do this kinda stuff.
Woah cool looking site there, thats definally what I had in mind. There is alot of limitation with this site but still cool nontheless.

If guys have an open minded you would see there is nothing racist about an asian community site. Anyone can join but it just a gathering for asian people to relate to each other and to learn about other asian cultures.
 
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