“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Building a sexual connection/creating lust

Asbury

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I have had a major revelation in the past few days - that rarely in my life I have felt a high lust between myself and a partner - the feeling is often mutual and perhaps why I often end up dating girls multiple times, having sex with very few and basically never enjoying the sex.

I have absolutely no problem building an emotional connection with the majority of girls but I think a lack of sexual energy keeps putting me in the friend zone.

How can I raise my libido? (I don't watch porn and rarely fap, though I could be in a NoFap flatline still).

How do you build up a mutual feeling of lust with a girl so you just wanna have sex?


EDIT: I use kino and will practically always have a make out session on a date. I just cannot seem to continue it into the bedroom.
 
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Roober

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Are you attracted to the women you are taking on dates? Are you drinking heavily? Do you have a sedentary lifestyle?

All of these can contribute to poor sexual performance. I know I have had issues, but it was usually that when we took off our clothes, I wasn't excited by her body.
 

AlphaNate

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Are you taking any medications? SSRIs are known to do this.
 
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