"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Building a music collection?

CoolRunning

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I don't listen to music much at all, but there are some bands I like. When I do listen it's on the radio in the car, usually. I want to start building a music collection, since when people come over to my place I want to have music to play.

Where do you suggest I start? CDs? MP3s via MSN Music or something? Can you get CDs for cheap nowadays?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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just get Limewire and burn a bunch of sh*t.

Start with a band called Porcupine Tree, they really wil blow your mind
 

ShizamDaMan

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Listen to some streaming radio, you'll get a bigger picture of what's out there than your Clear Channel radio clone.

Also, do you have any favorite genre's of music? Rock, rap, punk, opera, techno, bluegrass, metal, hillbilly? You need to figure that out first :)
 
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