"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Building a music collection?

CoolRunning

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I don't listen to music much at all, but there are some bands I like. When I do listen it's on the radio in the car, usually. I want to start building a music collection, since when people come over to my place I want to have music to play.

Where do you suggest I start? CDs? MP3s via MSN Music or something? Can you get CDs for cheap nowadays?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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just get Limewire and burn a bunch of sh*t.

Start with a band called Porcupine Tree, they really wil blow your mind
 

ShizamDaMan

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Listen to some streaming radio, you'll get a bigger picture of what's out there than your Clear Channel radio clone.

Also, do you have any favorite genre's of music? Rock, rap, punk, opera, techno, bluegrass, metal, hillbilly? You need to figure that out first :)
 
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