"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Build Martial Artists Physique???

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I'm curious to know what is recommended in weight lifting/diet when your into the martial arts? Several years ago I practiced martial arts and became very limber but that's about it.

Now I'm getting into Krav Maga which is much more intense than the TKD I did. As I understand it, you should not be huge (big) as it hinders flexibility. I'm a average guy 5'8" 173 pounds with a beer gut.

How do you balance keeping lean while building muscle at the same time? I've read plenty about eat BIG and focus on the big three workouts which makes sense, but does this rule apply in the same manner with what I'm looking to do?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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probably isnt much different.

might have to increase caloric intake further to offset what practicing your martial art does (assuming its moderately intense)
 

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THE_ADDMAN said:
probably isnt much different.

might have to increase caloric intake further to offset what practicing your martial art does (assuming its moderately intense)
Damn!! gotta eat more?
 

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Durden Tyler said:
Damn!! gotta eat more?

If you're burning excess calories through intense training, weight gain will be slowed down.

now, if you dont plan on training that intensely or long, you might be alright.
 

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THE_ADDMAN said:
If you're burning excess calories through intense training, weight gain will be slowed down.

now, if you dont plan on training that intensely or long, you might be alright.

Martial Arts training will be intense three to four days a week. When I did martial arts before I didn't change my diet and I actually gained some weight... After I lost a few pounds. My Doc said it was probably because I lost some fat then was building a little bit of muscle. I wasn't lifting or anything, just tons of push ups, weight free squats, sparring and things of that nature.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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