"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Build Martial Artists Physique???

Durden Tyler

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I'm curious to know what is recommended in weight lifting/diet when your into the martial arts? Several years ago I practiced martial arts and became very limber but that's about it.

Now I'm getting into Krav Maga which is much more intense than the TKD I did. As I understand it, you should not be huge (big) as it hinders flexibility. I'm a average guy 5'8" 173 pounds with a beer gut.

How do you balance keeping lean while building muscle at the same time? I've read plenty about eat BIG and focus on the big three workouts which makes sense, but does this rule apply in the same manner with what I'm looking to do?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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probably isnt much different.

might have to increase caloric intake further to offset what practicing your martial art does (assuming its moderately intense)
 

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THE_ADDMAN said:
probably isnt much different.

might have to increase caloric intake further to offset what practicing your martial art does (assuming its moderately intense)
Damn!! gotta eat more?
 

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Durden Tyler said:
Damn!! gotta eat more?

If you're burning excess calories through intense training, weight gain will be slowed down.

now, if you dont plan on training that intensely or long, you might be alright.
 

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THE_ADDMAN said:
If you're burning excess calories through intense training, weight gain will be slowed down.

now, if you dont plan on training that intensely or long, you might be alright.

Martial Arts training will be intense three to four days a week. When I did martial arts before I didn't change my diet and I actually gained some weight... After I lost a few pounds. My Doc said it was probably because I lost some fat then was building a little bit of muscle. I wasn't lifting or anything, just tons of push ups, weight free squats, sparring and things of that nature.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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